Many believers will end up in hell because they chose to rather please their husband, their wife, their children or a friend than to obey and please Jesus. Remember Adam and Eve. Adam was seduced by Eve. Remember Samson and Delilah. Remember the words of Jesus Christ in Luke 14:26,27 “If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple. “Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple.”
We cannot be pleasing to Jesus if we do not totally devote ourselves to Him and OBEY Him. If you want eternal life you have to TOTALLY OBEY Jesus Christ. If you allow your wife, your husband, anybody else, to come in between you and Jesus it can mean the end of your relationship with Jesus and you will perish, you will spend eternity in hell.
If you want to follow Jesus you must GO where He sends you and you must DO what He tells you and not allow anything or anybody to prevent you from obeying Him.
May Jesus bless you.